Love Makes the Difference
The need for significant is the emotional force behind much of, our behavior.
Feeling love by a wife or husband enhances our sense of significance.
I am significant.
Life has meaning.
There is a higher purpose
Without love, I may spend a life time in search of significance, self-worth, and security.
I may not feel significant until someone expresses love to me
Live is not the answer to everything, but it creates a climate of security in which we can seek answers to those things that bother us.
In the security of love:
1. A couple can discuss difference without condemnation
2. Conflicts can be resolved
3. Two people who are different can learn to live together in harmony
4. We discover how to bring out the best in each other
Those are the rewards of a secure love.
WE ARE LIKE ROOMMATES
We don't ever talk. He is always doing something. I wan him to sit on the couch with me and give me some time, look at me, talk to me about us, about our lives. (SCEAMS, QUALITY TIME)
A perfect wife would be a wife who would come home in the afternoon and fix dinner for (us). ...she would wash the dishes. ...She would sew the buttons on my shirt when they fall off. (SCREAMS, Acts of Service)
Can emotional love be reborn in a marriage? You bet.
The key is to learn the primary live language of your spouse and choose to speak it.
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